Over the last few days I have been swapping texts and calls with a potential....Potential what I hear you ask? Well maybe a guy to have a pleasant evening with, a friend, or a friend with benefits.....
We have joked about the fact that we have passed the tests so far, the texts, the calls, both flirting and chatting easily but the final test is the meet. Mr I as I will refer to my new 'friend' has announced that I've passed the test already, that we have clicked so well there is nothing else for me to do to convince him! A big statement to live up to...
Mr I has revealed he has had 5 meets, none of which evolved into anything more, he has found out, as I have, people are not all they say,or in fact anything like the pictures that they post! He has a bit of a jaded view of the experience to date but as said I have made him feel more than he has felt in a while...again a lot to live up to!
The normal routine I have adopted the few times before has begun, the beautifying process ...along with choosing the right clothes. Something elegant, a bit sexy but not brash and definitely not cheap.
They say you make the first impression in the first 30 seconds, and a further 30 seconds to change the other persons mind.....so I hope a sexy dress and boots will both show off my assets and send the right message!
How much fun has it been over the last few days, to be flirted with, to have the attention of a new man, to be lusted over and used in someone's else's fantasy - the excitement is building and I am sure tomorrow night as the time draws closer to meet this will be mixed with a sprinkle of nerves in anticipation of passing the final test...
Lips 11
Wednesday, 23 January 2013
Saturday, 19 January 2013
Mr R......
Bet you all thought I was going to leave you all out on a limb again.......
No way!!! So where were we.....
No way!!! So where were we.....
So, I drove excitedly to the hotel and pulled into the car park, i had agreed to text him when I arrived. He had spent the day bombarding me with texts about how excited he was to meet, couldn't wait etc, etc.. well as I walked towards the hotel entrance and a guy walked towards me - my first thought was he looked like a rat! (hence the letter R), I know you are probably thinking how mean I sound but see what you think once you know the whole story! So not quite as his picture and they say a camera never lies!!
He smiled almost creepily at me and leaned in brushing his mouth against my ear as he whispered how fantastic I looked. Well I had got dressed up so I thought what the hell, he might have a nice personality and I could have a nice evening! We went into the hotel bar where he ordered a coke and I had a spritzer. I know what you're thinking, boring get on with it...but this detail will become clear as to why I am re-telling it. We took our drinks to a quiet corner and we began to make small talk, at one point he leant toward we and said 'I have strawberries in my room, do you want to come and share them?' I declined politely (inside I was squirming in embarrassment) and at that point I knew that Mr R would most definitely not be the one!!
He asked me after about an hour whether I wanted to enjoy a passionate night with him! Who was he
kidding, at this stage he looked even more like a rat all he needed was a raincoat to complete the creepy picture. I am always polite, or at least I try to be, but in this game you need to be honest! I told him gently that I did not feel attracted to him, not only that I was dying of thirst he had not offered another drink even though we had both finished over half an hour ago, we had also talked about
having a meal in the hotel restaurant but this seemed far off his agenda now!
After I delivered the news to him that no I would not be spending the night, no I did not want to share his strawberries and no I did definitely not want to meet again he announced he needed to leave. So that's just what we did......I went to my car and he went in the other direction not so much as a glance or a wave from either...
He had obviously made up his mind he was there for a quickie and had no intention of participating in any build up. Well wham bam thank you ma'am I was not looking for, at least not with him lol!
It was the feeling that I took from the time with him that to be honest made me retreat away from the task at hand. I felt cheapened by it, he had taken what to me to that point was a journey I was embarking on which was both thrilling and sexy and turned it into a dirty experience. Inside I decided that maybe this was not for me......
So that's where I was, and where am I now you may ask......well with a smile on my face !! Over the last year a guy, who we will call Mr I, as 'I' think he may be the one......has sent me a few texts. We spoke way back when I was still in the 'game' so to speak....he was new to this way of life too and not sure of where or when he wanted to go with the feelings he had. At the time, we spoke for a long time one day, he was fun, made me smile and nice to talk to and by the end I told him that he needed to be sure before he took the plunge to find the right person to share the experience with....we left it there at the time but as I said he sent a few texts, which I didn't respond to as I wasn't sure any longer how I felt about it the whole experience.
Anyway about a week ago he sent another friendly text, so yesteday I responded with one of my own - I had thought what the hell why shouldnt I not have something fun for me, something sexy and just mine. Well the text was just the beginning, after a day going back and forth we talked today...
He's fun makes me laugh, flirts uncontrollably which is lovely and is sexy with it. It was so easy to talk to him we just clicked...the next step.? We are trying to meet up this week, the true test and the worries resurface - will he like what he sees, will I, will we both wantto take the next step.....exciting being on the precipice of something forbidden and wonderfully decadent.....watch this space!
Lips x
having a meal in the hotel restaurant but this seemed far off his agenda now!
After I delivered the news to him that no I would not be spending the night, no I did not want to share his strawberries and no I did definitely not want to meet again he announced he needed to leave. So that's just what we did......I went to my car and he went in the other direction not so much as a glance or a wave from either...
He had obviously made up his mind he was there for a quickie and had no intention of participating in any build up. Well wham bam thank you ma'am I was not looking for, at least not with him lol!
It was the feeling that I took from the time with him that to be honest made me retreat away from the task at hand. I felt cheapened by it, he had taken what to me to that point was a journey I was embarking on which was both thrilling and sexy and turned it into a dirty experience. Inside I decided that maybe this was not for me......
So that's where I was, and where am I now you may ask......well with a smile on my face !! Over the last year a guy, who we will call Mr I, as 'I' think he may be the one......has sent me a few texts. We spoke way back when I was still in the 'game' so to speak....he was new to this way of life too and not sure of where or when he wanted to go with the feelings he had. At the time, we spoke for a long time one day, he was fun, made me smile and nice to talk to and by the end I told him that he needed to be sure before he took the plunge to find the right person to share the experience with....we left it there at the time but as I said he sent a few texts, which I didn't respond to as I wasn't sure any longer how I felt about it the whole experience.
Anyway about a week ago he sent another friendly text, so yesteday I responded with one of my own - I had thought what the hell why shouldnt I not have something fun for me, something sexy and just mine. Well the text was just the beginning, after a day going back and forth we talked today...
He's fun makes me laugh, flirts uncontrollably which is lovely and is sexy with it. It was so easy to talk to him we just clicked...the next step.? We are trying to meet up this week, the true test and the worries resurface - will he like what he sees, will I, will we both wantto take the next step.....exciting being on the precipice of something forbidden and wonderfully decadent.....watch this space!
Lips x
Life got in the way!
For all you followers out there please accept my apologies for leaving you all on the edge....
Life, family, work demanded attention and my foray into the forbidden was pushed aside. So, for the last months I have lost 'me' a bit and have neglected my needs and wants. But no more!!!!!
I'm back and as hungry as ever to explore my wild and dangerous side.
So, where were we, I think you all deserve an update on where I left off...........
Mr B, the shy retiring good looking guy, well we met.......talked niceties over a glass or two but no spark, I tried really I did, he's good looking, well spoken, educated - too nice!!! How awful does that sound, I want to be treated well by a guy who showers me in attention and lights the fire that's smouldering deep inside me, but who is also strong, fun, takes control - a real man's man! How cliched does that sound? Mr B I'm afraid that's not you, we kissed and he put all his passion into it (or so it seemed) groaning with lust, I just found it just warm and wet (and not in a good way)and frankly the groaning did nothing but make me wonder when I could politely make my excuses and leave! So Mr B is finally crossed off the list!
Mr C and I met as well, good looking, tall quite sexy. Mmm i thought at first glance... We spent the evening talking about a his personal problems as he explained he was leaving his wife (slightly off putting) but there was some flirting, touching lightly as we brushed together occasionally. When we left we walked to my car where he took me gently in his asms, his passion rising as our mouths grew more insistent. His hands wandered brushing my breasts and moving down to squeeze my bum..,,we came up for air and I could see the effect that I had had on him as I spotted the straining bulge in his jeans...
We agreed to talk again and I drove away a light flush in my cheeks and my breath slightly faster than it had been at the start....could this be the one......well don't get all excited our next conversations
were ALL about him and his ex-wife!! He may have been a good looking guy but he had way too much baggage...I told him he would need to sort his own life out first and then if he was still interested to get in touch. That was the best decision all round I needed a no strings attached escapism experience not to be an agony aunt.
So I began my search again, a new guy who we will call Mr R (the letter R will become clear soon) got in touch he sounded really nice and we ended up speaking on the phone. He seemed nice and wanted to meet up. So.... A date was set at a local hotel bar in the country, nice setting, out of the way so no chance of bumping into anyone we both knew! I choose my outfit, black sexy dress, stockings, satin high heels, basque - well it's best to be prepared.....
Life, family, work demanded attention and my foray into the forbidden was pushed aside. So, for the last months I have lost 'me' a bit and have neglected my needs and wants. But no more!!!!!
I'm back and as hungry as ever to explore my wild and dangerous side.
So, where were we, I think you all deserve an update on where I left off...........
Mr B, the shy retiring good looking guy, well we met.......talked niceties over a glass or two but no spark, I tried really I did, he's good looking, well spoken, educated - too nice!!! How awful does that sound, I want to be treated well by a guy who showers me in attention and lights the fire that's smouldering deep inside me, but who is also strong, fun, takes control - a real man's man! How cliched does that sound? Mr B I'm afraid that's not you, we kissed and he put all his passion into it (or so it seemed) groaning with lust, I just found it just warm and wet (and not in a good way)and frankly the groaning did nothing but make me wonder when I could politely make my excuses and leave! So Mr B is finally crossed off the list!
Mr C and I met as well, good looking, tall quite sexy. Mmm i thought at first glance... We spent the evening talking about a his personal problems as he explained he was leaving his wife (slightly off putting) but there was some flirting, touching lightly as we brushed together occasionally. When we left we walked to my car where he took me gently in his asms, his passion rising as our mouths grew more insistent. His hands wandered brushing my breasts and moving down to squeeze my bum..,,we came up for air and I could see the effect that I had had on him as I spotted the straining bulge in his jeans...
We agreed to talk again and I drove away a light flush in my cheeks and my breath slightly faster than it had been at the start....could this be the one......well don't get all excited our next conversations
were ALL about him and his ex-wife!! He may have been a good looking guy but he had way too much baggage...I told him he would need to sort his own life out first and then if he was still interested to get in touch. That was the best decision all round I needed a no strings attached escapism experience not to be an agony aunt.
So I began my search again, a new guy who we will call Mr R (the letter R will become clear soon) got in touch he sounded really nice and we ended up speaking on the phone. He seemed nice and wanted to meet up. So.... A date was set at a local hotel bar in the country, nice setting, out of the way so no chance of bumping into anyone we both knew! I choose my outfit, black sexy dress, stockings, satin high heels, basque - well it's best to be prepared.....
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