So, where was I? A rendezvous was planned for last Sunday with Mr D. Low and behold I received a text in the morning that he couldn't get away as his wife had changed her plans. How gutted was I! We had spoken on the phone again and boy was he sexy! He can chat for England and is so easy to talk with has a great sense of fun about him and just the right about of boyish flirtation!
I was really looking forward to actually being face to face with this guy and now his wife had put the mockers on it! I actually felt quite indignant in a way that he could not create the 'perfect excuse' to see me! Wasn't I worth it? His text was apologetic and said how 'gutted' he was, which went a little way to placate me. Plus he called later when he managed to escape and we spoke for about 40 mins, quite a while for two people who haven't even met! He told me how much he wanted to kiss me when we met and how sexy I sounded on the phone...so I'll let him off this one time.
It's a really odd situation to be in , never considered myself as the 'other woman' but that's what I am I suppose..The deceit that you have to go to, the lies you have to create to have the excitement we seek. You try not to consider the other innocent parties in this, try to just separate what we are doing from your and their normal life, like the two don't actually affect each other, just run parallel it's not until something appears like the other party rearing their head and the consequence affects our plans that you have to admit that there are others affected by our actions!!!
So, has that made me want to see him less, has the guilt overcome my need! No!! We are now talking or texting ( what did we do before mobiles?)most days, learning more about each other and trying between both our busy normal lives to get together. We have a date pencilled in for this Sunday, as long as he can find a good excuse! Although I have been honest with him and said that if he wants to do this, honesty is really out of the window! I think he sees that as he keeps saying how much he needs and wants to meet! May be onto a good thing with this one, who knows...
On another front, Mr B, who I had to cancel and is still it appears very keen, I'm meeting tomorrow for a quiet drink. Have reservations as he seems to be a lovely guy, he just doesn't make me tingle when we talk like Mr D. However, I'm trying to be open minded, he could be brimimg over with passion and whisk me off my feet - don't think so somehow!! Will fill you in with the gory details when they happen!!
I have also been in touch with another guy, now is now known as Mr E. He is more local to me and our message banter has been very flirty. He seems very nice, looks like a fairly good looking tall rugby player and as an added bonus he is very keen to meet up soon too. We are at present emailing each other so we can arrange a date!
3, I have three men, all telling me how lovely, sexy and funny I am, all wanting me and to meet up. Life could not get better!!!!!!
Lips x
Wednesday, 9 February 2011
Friday, 4 February 2011
I'm back!!!
So I have returned, no have not been whisked away by a sexy stud, but suffering from the British weather and the inevitable colds and coughs it brings! Hardly conducive of creating a passion filled love affair when your nose looks like something rudolph would be proud of!!!
The worst of it was I had to cancel Mr C! I sent an apologetic note from my sick bed and in return received a one line 'get well soon', what did I expect, well maybe a bit more than that!! He had also been noticeably quiet of late, as previously he messaged me everyday keen to keep up with my comings and going, telling me how attractive he thought I was..., this sudden drought of interest held an underlying question?
So now, returning to feeling human I thought it was time for me to lay my cards on the table! That's the thing with 'looking' for potential affair material you don't want to waste time, the need to find 'the one ' outweighs all reason! Well, Mr C came back and just as I thought he said that he stil wanted to meet and that he had met a woman who was very adventurous and wanted him to 'swing' with her. Shocked? No just proves I was right, how fickle that a man can be (not being sexist its just my experience) turns on the charm but reality is they just want to get into your knickers!!!! However and whenever!!! So, sloppy seconds I'm not Mr C who has missed out on this sex kitten! Meow....
Mr D however, has reached level 2 twice!! Well we have spoken twice now on the phone one day after the next, plus messaged in between....he is lovely on the phone, friendly, flirty, funny and sexy!!!
We have planned to meet this weekend all being well! A quiet coffee where we can chat - really it's a face to face meet to check each other out and see if we like what we see!!!! He's six foot, fair (a change for me as I am normally drawn to tall dark and handsome) Very easy to talk too, in fact I think he can talk more than me!
I'm just hoping that the reality lives up to the fantasy and I will feel drawn to him, enough to want him to reach out and touch me, hold me, kiss me and more.. Watch this space, I'll let you know!!!
Lips x
The worst of it was I had to cancel Mr C! I sent an apologetic note from my sick bed and in return received a one line 'get well soon', what did I expect, well maybe a bit more than that!! He had also been noticeably quiet of late, as previously he messaged me everyday keen to keep up with my comings and going, telling me how attractive he thought I was..., this sudden drought of interest held an underlying question?
So now, returning to feeling human I thought it was time for me to lay my cards on the table! That's the thing with 'looking' for potential affair material you don't want to waste time, the need to find 'the one ' outweighs all reason! Well, Mr C came back and just as I thought he said that he stil wanted to meet and that he had met a woman who was very adventurous and wanted him to 'swing' with her. Shocked? No just proves I was right, how fickle that a man can be (not being sexist its just my experience) turns on the charm but reality is they just want to get into your knickers!!!! However and whenever!!! So, sloppy seconds I'm not Mr C who has missed out on this sex kitten! Meow....
Mr D however, has reached level 2 twice!! Well we have spoken twice now on the phone one day after the next, plus messaged in between....he is lovely on the phone, friendly, flirty, funny and sexy!!!
We have planned to meet this weekend all being well! A quiet coffee where we can chat - really it's a face to face meet to check each other out and see if we like what we see!!!! He's six foot, fair (a change for me as I am normally drawn to tall dark and handsome) Very easy to talk too, in fact I think he can talk more than me!
I'm just hoping that the reality lives up to the fantasy and I will feel drawn to him, enough to want him to reach out and touch me, hold me, kiss me and more.. Watch this space, I'll let you know!!!
Lips x
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