What's happening now???

Hi all,
A day has passed without me updating my blog, no I have not disappeared off into the sunset with my lover...it was my birthday and I had a day off! However, in true addictive style I still found a few minutes to check my messages - well can't miss an opportunity can I?! I have had over 20 messages in the last few days - where do all these guys keep coming from? One even sending 3 messages including the fact he was off on holiday for 3 weeks but giving me his mobile number so I could ring him - wouldn't mind but have never even answered him!!

Have had to postpone Mr B due to family commitments - an occupational hazard in trying to meet up with someone when both of you have to create excuses and diversions so you can make time... I suppose the deception is part of the thrill, which is a contradiction in terms when the two people tangled in deception ask for honesty with each other!! Maybe it's this shared secret that adds the flames to the fire, something you only share with your lover (or potential). Why do we feel the need to lie to one party and demand upfront honesty from the other...what people are we to deceive others for our own pleasure??? I suppose part of this is being able to 'divide' the two lives one is real life and one is the fantasy. Its a stolen moment only the two of you share, something you take with you back into your real life, tucked away at the back of your memories, relived and played out in your mind when the need arises!!

So Mr C has asked for a 'date' (his words and very nicely put - he scores points for that)...oh by the way that brings me to rule no 3!

So, Rule No 3, we ladies or girls whatever description you prefer, want and need to be flirted with, it's a little known fact that many women are stimulated by the mind, crack that and you are half way there!!! We want to have someone woo us - I know, what an old fashioned word but what else would you call it!? We want to be told we are sexy, but not by someone in a creepy way...we want a man to make us smile and laugh, to talk with, to share stolen moments with. A note to the wise guys telling us you want to get in our knickers at the outset and give us a good seeing to does not take you down the 'the path of pleasure'. Now don't get me wrong I'm sure there are some women out there that respond well to this direct approach, but it's not the norm. Also some of us have no aversion to some 'dirty talk' but there is a right time and a right place - so choose wisely! Someone who flirts outrageously with us and makes us feel wanted that's the real foreplay, you crack this code and you are on the way to level 5 for sure!!!! As I said levels will become clearer as as and when they have been reached....

So back to Mr C, we are trying to arrange a date for next week, difficicult when he can only message during the day, and mainly I can only reply at night! So eventually we will 'get it together' let's hope it's worth it!!!! Mr B and I will have go and wait another week too so unless something drastic happens the only affair I will be having is in my head!

Lips x