An update!!

So thought I had better explain, I joined the site a couple of weeks ago, but only decided to share my experience with other likeminded people yesterday via this blog. It will then take a little while to catch up to real time so bear with me! This blog is not intended to offend anyone it's just a frank account behind the scenes of an illicit affair!!

It becomes addictive checking the site for messages, seeing when you sign in that 'you have mail'. I've been asked so far to join a harem, go on 3 holidays and share a guys hot tub!!!

The normal approach it appears is to send a message to someone who grabs your fancy from what's written - taking the chance it's near the truth. Personally, I'm looking for someone who can string a sentence together, who can make me smile in that first message. Guys, 5 words saying 'you sound good, fancy it?' don't really make the grade.

It was one of these messages that caught my eye, funny, honest both looking for same
thing, the elusive spark and excitement from someone new. I messaged back an equally smart(obviously) reply? Wanting to not appear desperate just interested. So my new Mr A, as I will refer to him, asked for my mobile number so he could send me his photo, Level 2 had been reached.

He responded to my pics saying I looked very sexy and had a lovely smile, good start!! I waited with bated breath as his photo loaded, well I was pleasantly surprised it was normal and a head shot!!!

Guys Rule no 2 - ladies do not want to be confronted by a photo of your member! You may be proud of it but we would much rather be surprised!!

Let's face it most are pretty unattractive and we are more concerned that you know how to use it!!! Subject to public opinion unless it's the size of a walnut we aren't that hung up on size, how you perform completely is more of a concern to us!!!

Well over the next 24 hours Mr A and I exchanged 93 text messages, he was friendly, funny and incredibly sexy. He suggested we meet that evening for a drink. I had not spoken to him yet, so he could have sounded like Kermit for all I knew, but part of entering into this situation is the risk and chance you take when you enter into the realms of an affair!!! It adds the spice to the whole experience.

We had agreed casual jeans affair for our rendezvous so I chose a tight bum-hugging pair of skinny jeans tucked into highheeled black boots and a simple top (showing the obligatory tease of cleavage) all topped off with a sexy smelling perfume!!!

So, legs smooth, check, all bits trimmed (well you never know!!), blonde hair suitably sexily fluffed and make-up, just enough to look natural yet hide any imperfections ( not that I have any obviously - yeah right!!).

I drove clutching the steering wheel, butterflies forming in the pit of my stomach, my body tingling in anticipation. Would he like what he saw, what about my extra little lumps? Would he notice, what would we say to each other, what was he expecting from me??

We were meeting in the bar of his hotel, quiet enough to talk, public enough for me to feel safe!! I had already told him not to get the wrong impression, which he had insisted wasn't the case.

I drove along the sweeping drive, the hotel lights emerging in front, I was taking the next step, level 3 and entering a new chapter in my life!!!