The search continues...

As part of trying to find a prospective guy for a steamy affair using a site as I am, as well as vetting those less suitable you also have to face up to the harsh reality of rejection. I have had a couple come back and say 'sorry not what I'm looking for!'. It's like, once you have laid yourself out there, bared your pictures, that you are in a shop window. Guys can pick and choose it appears!! You have to 'adapt' and accept that all those searching for a likeminded mate have a sole purpose, we are all on the site with a picture in mind of the 'one' and will not accept less!! This means rejection is an inevitable consequence...

One guy I have been talking to lately, (we have also hit level 2 and spoken on the phone), he was soooo nervous, his messages analyse everything, his guilt is evident. Let's face it you are going to do something like this, pre-meditated, there is no space for guilt!!!

He is fairly attractive and eloquent but doesn't really 'light my fire'. I have agreed to meet him as don't feel I can crush his boyish spirit. That sounds awful doesn't it, like he is some sort of charity case. But let's face it I am looking for electricity from the start, leading to earth moving sex, otherwise why would I be doing this!! It makes you feel you could be wasting time, when another guy out there could be waiting!! Anyway they say you have to watch the quiet ones, so I could be surprised...

I have a couple of potential 'candidates' on the horizon , one of which I have recently taken to level 2, he is tall, dark and has a nice warm friendly face, not unattractive but no George Clooney (well we can all hope can't we). He was fairly confident on the phone and very keen, suggesting that although he would like to rip my clothes off when we first meet (which was very flattering!!!), realisticaly he thought we should have a quiet drink and get to know each other.

I would say that if nothing else the experience so far has done wonders for my ego. I suppose as the years go by you lose yourself in the daily family hubbub. Now though to be told you are gorgeous, sexy and attractive by other men makes you feel fantastic and awakens a little sleeping sex goddess that you used to know!!


So, so far I am now arranging to meet shy Mr B this week and tall dark Mr C shortly after. Will keep you posted!!!!!





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